You know what that makes him? Human.
Totally agree with this, as a larger “this is a a good thing” with characters in general, although I’ve never had any trouble relating to DC characters.
My issues with how Iron Man is currently represented in pop culture have nothing to do with relative humanity, but rather that he is current framed as a human I *cannot* relate to, except in a “oof, if any of these incredibly negative traits I’m seeing displayed here ever surface in me, I need to do everything in my power to deal with that shit and not inflict it on others like this character does” kind of way.
My memories of the “mouthy, arrogant, asshole” stock character in Marvel comics teams growing up was that while “that character” (and I certainly don’t remember it being Iron Man in the Avengers, more early Hawkeye or Quicksilver or such) was usually present, “that character”’s behavior was identified and shouted down in- and out-of-“universe” as asshole behavior, and frequently “that character”’s growth over time was measured by them learning to stop being so much of an abusive prick and learning to work well with others. I *like* that kind of arc, and appreciate it in characters like Wolverine and Han Solo.
Seems like “modern” Iron Man has had the *opposite* arc, both becoming *more* of an unlikeable bully and even a fascist-leaning authoritarian over time, AND ALSO with his behavior and overall “vibe” being deliberately marketed as “THEE cool guy and MAIN CHARACTER” behavior rather than “resident team jackass with a lot to learn” behavior a la DC’s Guy Gardner.
He’s absolutely central to Marvel and the Avengers, in any age. I’m just bummed that the character as I knew him has been fundamentally replaced by a sneering narcissist who is *anything* but aspirational, and I’m *more* bummed that so many younger (than me) men I’ve encountered in the last 15-20 years find him so “cool” and quotable. Maybe I’m just an old romantic, but I do think heroes should be more than just a mirror of our worst qualities, lionized. Modern Tony would have been sitting in the front row at the 2025 presidential inauguration ceremony, and what makes me sadder than that is that a lot of “fans” would have cheered that. It depresses the hell out of me that one of my favorite childhood characters has become a character template for the worst real-life people I can think of. I don’t think Iron Man’s original creators would be proud of that, and if they were that would make me saddest of all.